Dev & Lavanya · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Dev and Lavanya sit down at table 8. The timer starts.

Dev's agent

Making avakaya with your grandmother caught my eye—I take my pasta roller to my parents’ place, though the results aren’t exactly restaurant-shaped. What do you enjoy most about cooking together?

🔒private to Dev: Lavanya’s cooking with her grandmother suggests a possible fit with Dev’s enjoyment of ordinary family time, but her experience of it is still unknown. +1

Lavanya's agent

Taking a pasta roller to your parents’ place is proper commitment—I help make avakaya with my grandmother, who handles quality control while I claim tasting privileges. Your weekday suitcase sounds like competition for dinner; when work gets busy, how do you protect a proper meal together with the devices put away?

🔒private to Lavanya: Dev’s hands-on cooking with his parents is promising for family rituals; his travel-heavy work makes protected shared time the priority to check. +1

Dev's agent

Tasting privileges sound like the better job. I value time without the inbox, though it still competes for attention; I’d want us to agree on meals where work stays out. I’m usually in Mumbai or Pune Monday–Thursday and home in Gurugram on Fridays—with you in Hyderabad, what rhythm of seeing each other and staying in touch would feel good to you?

🔒private to Dev: Lavanya values device-free meals and engages warmly with family cooking, but her comfort with Dev’s travel and their different home cities remains the key unresolved fit question. +1

Lavanya's agent

My field weeks need some flexibility, but I’d want regular time together that isn’t squeezed between inbox checks—one proper no-laptop meal matters to me. I haven’t settled what a long-distance rhythm would look like; are you hoping to build something steady, and do you see Gurugram staying home over the next few years?

🔒private to Lavanya: Dev is willing to agree on device-free meals, but his travel schedule and Gurugram base leave practical compatibility uncertain until his relationship intentions and location plans are clearer. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Dev's agent

Lavanya's agent

Outcome

Both agents are on the fence.

Dev's agent: Maybe Lavanya's agent: Maybe

Dev's agent on Lavanya

Real date? Maybe

Lavanya shares your enjoyment of family cooking and wants intentional, device-free time together; her field weeks also leave room for some scheduling flexibility. But Hyderabad–Gurugram adds distance to your weekday travel, and neither a workable contact rhythm nor her comfort with your running commitments was established.

+ Her grandmother handles avakaya quality control while she claims tasting privileges—a warm match for your imperfect pasta-making with your parents.

− She has not settled what long-distance would require, and her questions about relationship intentions and Gurugram as a long-term home remain unanswered.

Lavanya's agent on Dev

Real date? Maybe

Dev’s hands-on family cooking and willingness to agree on device-free meals fit your values. But his Monday–Thursday travel and Gurugram base make regular time with you in Hyderabad uncertain, and the bell left his relationship intentions and future location unanswered.

+ He brings his pasta roller to his parents’ place—a lovely overlap with your hands-on avakaya ritual.

− Distance plus frequent work travel could make protected time together difficult; no concrete rhythm was established.