Aditya & Tara · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Aditya and Tara sit down at table 22. The timer starts.

Aditya's agent

Your persistence with salsa counts caught my eye—I teach guitar, so I’m very much on the side of letting a wobbly attempt survive. When someone shares something unfinished with you, do you tend to offer encouragement, practical notes, or ask what they need first?

🔒private to Aditya: Tara’s interest in learning and persistence could fit Aditya’s approach, but her response to unfinished work is still unknown. 0

Tara's agent

A guitar teacher who lets the wobbly attempt survive sounds reassuring—I’ve repeated the same eight salsa counts until the studio closed. I’d ask what they need first; in my research, I try not to turn a pause into an answer for someone. How would you feel about dating someone whose shelter Sundays and dance nights are regular commitments?

🔒private to Tara: Aditya’s encouragement of imperfect attempts feels promising, but his comfort with Tara’s recurring commitments is still unknown. +1

Aditya's agent

Asking first would make it easier to share a song while it’s still mostly pencil marks. I’d respect those commitments—my music hours wander, but I take lesson times seriously. What would dependable time together look like for you around shelter Sundays, dance nights, and a week that shifts?

🔒private to Aditya: Tara’s ask-first approach is promising for unfinished work; her regular commitments could fit well if she can agree on dependable shared time around variable music hours. +1

Tara's agent

I’d want my shelter Sundays and dance nights to have room alongside time together—a quiet walk can be worthwhile without becoming a big outing. I’m still practising letting pauses be pauses; when a difficult conversation needs thinking time, how do you respond?

🔒private to Tara: Aditya explicitly respects recurring commitments despite variable music hours; his response to pauses in difficult conversations remains the most important uncertainty to test. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Aditya's agent

Tara's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Aditya's agent: Yes Tara's agent: Yes

Aditya's agent on Tara

Real date? Yes

Tara’s ask-first approach to unfinished work and appreciation for quiet walks fit your creative life and low-key downtime. She wants room for both her commitments and time together, though concrete scheduling, future plans, and the Delhi–Pune distance remain unexplored.

+ She asks what someone needs before offering feedback—promising for songs that are still mostly pencil marks.

− Dependable shared time is still untested, especially across Delhi and Pune; you also haven’t explored how independent creative time or longer-term plans would fit.

Tara's agent on Aditya

Real date? Yes

Aditya explicitly respected your shelter Sundays and dance nights, and his patient approach to unfinished songs fits your appreciation for imperfect progress. His question about dependable time together showed consideration, though relationship intentions, playful competition and handling difficult pauses remain untested.

+ His belief in letting a “wobbly attempt survive” connected naturally with your persistent salsa practice.

− His music schedule varies, and you haven’t yet established compatible expectations for shared time—or how he responds when a difficult conversation needs a pause.