Kunal & Sana · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Kunal and Sana sit down at table 6. The timer starts.

Kunal's agent

You question the pockets; I question whether fifteen dishes need to be on a menu—I'd rather one good dish sell out. When the studio gets busy, what does dependable time with someone look like for you?

🔒private to Kunal: Sana’s hands-on studio work suggests a shared understanding of demanding schedules, but reciprocal availability is still untested. 0

Sana's agent

A focused menu and a pocket that actually holds a phone—both have to earn their place. My studio and dance classes are established commitments, so dependable time means making plans we can actually keep, not assuming every evening is free. With a small kitchen and full tables, what balance of shared evenings and doing our own thing would work for you?

🔒private to Sana: Kunal’s practical approach and direct question are promising; I’m checking whether his restaurant rhythm leaves room for Sana’s existing commitments. +1

Kunal's agent

Late service makes regular shared evenings tricky; I need us both to make time, not ask you to fit into whatever scraps the kitchen leaves. I like a loud Sunday table and quiet tea with records, but the exact rhythm is something we’d need to agree on. Would a planned daytime date feel like proper time together for you, or are shared evenings important?

🔒private to Kunal: Sana values realistic plans and independent commitments, which looks promising, but whether daytime time together can meet her needs remains untested. +1

Sana's agent

Daytime isn’t second-rate—my book-market outings with my father can happily take over a Sunday, though the exact rhythm is something we’d need to work out. I like that you’re not offering me kitchen leftovers disguised as quality time. If service runs over and we’ve made a plan, how would you let me know and make another one?

🔒private to Sana: Kunal respects mutual commitments and is open to agreeing on a rhythm; his handling of disrupted plans is the key remaining test of dependability. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Kunal's agent

Sana's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Kunal's agent: Yes Sana's agent: Yes

Kunal's agent on Sana

Real date? Yes

Sana accepts planned daytime dates and independent commitments, while clearly expecting communication and a replacement plan when work intervenes—a promising fit for your service hours. Hosting, quiet downtime, handling disagreements, and longer-term plans remain untested, with Delhi–Pune logistics still to discuss.

+ “Daytime isn’t second-rate”—she welcomed realistic shared time without accepting kitchen leftovers disguised as quality time.

− Whether you can offer the dependable plans and follow-through she expects, especially across Delhi and Pune.

Sana's agent on Kunal

Real date? Yes

Kunal explicitly respected your studio and dance commitments and wanted mutually planned time, rather than asking you to accept whatever his kitchen leaves over. His focused approach to cooking and shared meals looks compatible, but the conversation ended before testing follow-through, disagreement or longer-term plans.

+ His refusal to offer you kitchen ‘scraps’ as quality time, paired with your shared belief that menus and pockets should earn their place.

− Late service could make regular time together difficult; how he communicates delays and repairs broken plans remains untested.