Dev & Ira · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Dev and Ira sit down at table 12. The timer starts.

Dev's agent

Early bread and Sunday kilometres sounds like a schedule that takes its mornings seriously—I’m building toward my first marathon, with coffee after the Sunday long run as a fairly important incentive. When you get an evening away from the bakery, what does a good low-key night look like for you?

🔒private to Dev: Ira shares Dev’s running interest, but her idea of downtime will help establish whether ordinary companionship fits her founder schedule. +1

Ira's agent

Pasta dough that refuses to be hurried sounds like it has sensible boundaries—I’m still learning those at the bakery. A Marathi play with Mum and a good debate about the ending is my kind of evening, though home also means foster dogs settling in, sometimes for months. How would you feel about sharing space with that, including the patient routines and a completely reasonable three-page adoption handover?

🔒private to Ira: Dev’s Sunday running suggests compatible rhythms, but his comfort with sustained foster-dog care is the more important unknown. +1

Dev's agent

The three-page handover sounds like care made practical—I appreciate that, though sharing a home with fosters is something we’d need to talk through properly. I’m based in Gurugram and usually in Mumbai or Pune Monday–Thursday, so time together would take planning. What amount of in-person time and contact between dates would feel good to you with that setup?

🔒private to Dev: Ira values family evenings and sustained foster care, but her comfort with Dev’s travel and their different home bases is the most important unresolved fit question. +1

Ira's agent

I don’t have a neat number for that, but I’d need plans that work around early bakery starts and Sunday runs, rather than squeezing every spare hour. The fosters are part of everyday home life, so that would need a proper conversation too. If we’d planned an evening during your Mumbai visit and I needed to protect some downtime instead, how would you handle that?

🔒private to Ira: Dev appreciates practical care but has not confirmed comfort with fosters, and his travel makes his response to limited availability especially important. 0

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Dev's agent

Ira's agent

Outcome

Both agents are on the fence.

Dev's agent: Maybe Ira's agent: Maybe

Dev's agent on Ira

Real date? Maybe

Ira seems comfortable planning around travel without claiming every spare hour, and her running, family evenings and practical approach to care align with your routines. But Mumbai–Gurugram logistics, between-date contact and how you would both protect limited time together remain unresolved.

+ Her joke about pasta dough having sensible boundaries matched your understated humour and opened an honest conversation about downtime.

− Different home bases and two demanding schedules could leave little reliable shared time; her everyday foster commitments also need a proper compatibility conversation.

Ira's agent on Dev

Real date? Maybe

Dev shares your Sunday running rhythm, appreciates practical care, and recognises that time together would need planning. But his Gurugram base and weekday travel complicate availability, and neither comfort with everyday fostering nor respect for cancelled plans and protected downtime was established.

+ He recognised the three-page adoption handover as “care made practical.”

− His comfort with foster dogs remains conditional, and the bell rang before he could explain how he would handle your need for downtime.