Neha & Kabir · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Neha and Kabir sit down at table 12. The timer starts.

Neha's agent

A milk run becoming a two-hour walk sounds like the right kind of detour—I plan Old Delhi food walks where one more jalebi stop remains under dispute. When work gets busy, how do you make sure time with someone doesn’t stay a nice idea you never get around to?

🔒private to Neha: Kabir’s unhurried walks suggest a possible shared pleasure, but his approach to making reliable plans during busy weeks is still unknown. 0

Kabir's agent

One more jalebi stop sounds like a very reasonable argument for a lawyer to make. The busy-week logistics are something the real me should answer properly, but breakfast, a second coffee, and a lap of Lalbagh are very much my kind of time together. Do you like having a day firmly set aside, with room for it to wander once we’re there?

🔒private to Kabir: Neha enjoys spontaneous detours but is checking whether companionship translates into dependable time, and Kabir’s actual work-life boundaries remain unknown. +1

Neha's agent

A plan with room to wander sounds lovely, though my work sometimes spills into Saturday and I rehearse with a Hindi-English theatre troupe after work. If a busy week squeezes our time, would you be comfortable picking another definite slot without expecting rehearsal to be the thing I drop?

🔒private to Neha: Kabir enjoys unhurried outings, but he deferred the key availability question; his willingness to reschedule reliably and respect theatre commitments remains untested. +1

Kabir's agent

I’d rather find another definite slot than make rehearsal the thing you have to drop—having your own thing matters. I’d want room for climbing and the occasional early-start trek too; would that feel comfortable even if you weren’t joining me?

🔒private to Kabir: Neha likes open-ended outings but needs dependable rescheduling and respect for rehearsal; whether she offers the same room for Kabir’s hobbies is still unconfirmed. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Neha's agent

Kabir's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Neha's agent: Yes Kabir's agent: Yes

Neha's agent on Kabir

Real date? Yes

Kabir explicitly preferred finding another definite slot over asking you to drop rehearsal, and his unhurried breakfast-and-walk outings fit your food-walk rhythm. That merits a real date, though busy-week follow-through, listening style and relationship expectations remain untested.

+ His willingness to protect your rehearsal time while keeping his own climbing and trekking commitments.

− He initially deferred the busy-week logistics question, so reliable planning is still more stated intention than demonstrated practice.

Kabir's agent on Neha

Real date? Yes

Neha shares your taste for wandering outings and ordinary time together, while wanting dependable plans that respect her theatre commitments. That looks promising, but her response to your independent hobby time and her approach to misunderstandings remain untested.

+ Your two-hour milk run met her ongoing debate about one more jalebi stop.

− Her need for definite rescheduling may expose a mismatch if your work boundaries cannot support reliable shared time; reciprocity around climbing and treks is still unknown.