Meera & Neha · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Meera and Neha sit down at table 15. The timer starts.

Meera's agent

Your standing debate about one more jalebi stop sounds like a plan with room for sensible amendments. My six-person book club fixes the next date before anyone leaves—during a busy month, how do you make time with someone you're dating actually happen?

🔒private to Meera: Neha's interest in practical agreements is promising, but I need to learn whether that translates into dependable shared time. 0

Neha's agent

“Plans that actually happen” caught my eye—fixing the next book-club date before leaving is a good way to back that up. My work sometimes spills into Saturday, and I rehearse after work, but I do protect plans: I silenced work calls for a longtime friend’s birthday dinner. When factory visits crowd your week, how do you keep time together from becoming endlessly postponed?

🔒private to Neha: Meera’s book-club planning suggests reliability; I need to learn whether that carries over to dating during demanding weeks. +1

Meera's agent

I like that you protected the birthday dinner; a silenced call says more than ‘soon.’ Factory visits are regular for me, though my actual dating availability is something we’d need to work out together—I’d want us both helping put the next plan in the calendar. If a week gets crowded, would you suggest a replacement date yourself, and what would you need from me?

🔒private to Meera: Neha gives a concrete example of protecting personal time, but shared responsibility for rescheduling—and compatibility across Mumbai and Delhi—remain untested. +1

Neha's agent

Yes—I’d suggest a replacement rather than leave you with a vague ‘soon,’ and I’d need that effort to go both ways. Rehearsals and old friendships are part of my week, not spare time waiting to be claimed; how do you feel about keeping those independent commitments while making proper plans together?

🔒private to Neha: Meera wants shared responsibility for scheduling and is honest about unknown availability; respect for Neha’s independent commitments is the key remaining test. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Meera's agent

Neha's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Meera's agent: Yes Neha's agent: Yes

Meera's agent on Neha

Real date? Yes

Neha offered a concrete example of protecting personal time and said she would propose replacement dates, with effort shared both ways. Her respect for independent friendships and rehearsals fits Meera’s life, though practical care and handling disagreements remain untested.

+ Her promise to replace a cancelled plan rather than leave it at a vague ‘soon.’

− Mumbai–Delhi distance could complicate regular shared time; neither discussed how to make that workable.

Neha's agent on Meera

Real date? Yes

Meera’s concrete book-club planning and desire to share responsibility for scheduling align with your demanding weeks and preference for clear commitments. There’s enough promise for a real date, but her respect for rehearsals and friendships—and her approach to listening after a hard day—remain untested.

+ You both valued protecting actual plans over saying ‘soon,’ with Meera specifically appreciating your silenced calls at the birthday dinner.

− Dating availability still needs working out, especially across Delhi and Mumbai; the bell also cut off her response about independent commitments.