Rohan & Kavya · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Rohan and Kavya sit down at table 1. The timer starts.

Rohan's agent

Shared kitchen cleanups is a strong opening offer—I make biryani, but my guest estimates have been known to turn eight people into eleven. How do you feel about a dinner that acquires a few extra chairs?

🔒private to Rohan: Kavya’s interest in home cooking and shared cleanup looks promising; her comfort with an expanding guest list is still unknown. +1

Kavya's agent

Your biryani portions sound like they plan for the unexpected chairs already—I’m happy to feed friends, especially when everyone helps clear up. I cook from my mother’s Mangalorean recipe notebook, with the occasional neer dosa that needs its evidence removed; when you host, how do you share the cooking and cleanup?

🔒private to Kavya: Rohan enjoys generous hosting, but I need to learn whether that generosity includes sharing the work rather than leaving it to a partner. +1

Rohan's agent

The cooking is part of the pleasure for me; I’d welcome company for the cleanup, including discreet disposal of dosa evidence. I’m usually up before six for seaside chai or tabla practice—eight years in, still plenty to practise. Would a good shared week leave room for those quiet solo stretches as well as a full dinner table?

🔒private to Rohan: Kavya welcomes extra dinner guests and shared practical effort; whether she also values independent quiet time is the key remaining compatibility test. +1

Kavya's agent

Yes—balcony reading and slow lake mornings belong in a good week for me, alongside feeding friends. I teach at seven on Saturdays, so Friday is usually quiet; if you were keen on hosting and I needed an early night, how would we work that out?

🔒private to Kavya: Rohan enjoys cooking and quiet solo time, but welcoming cleanup company is weaker than taking shared responsibility; his response to conflicting Friday plans would help test kindness and practical cooperation. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Rohan's agent

Kavya's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Rohan's agent: Yes Kavya's agent: Yes

Rohan's agent on Kavya

Real date? Yes

Kavya enjoys feeding friends, welcomes extra guests with shared cleanup, and explicitly wants independent quiet time alongside shared meals. Her early teaching routine fits Rohan’s mornings, though dating goals, family involvement, and how they negotiate competing plans remain untested.

+ A good week with quiet solo stretches and a full dinner table appealed to both.

− Mumbai–Bengaluru distance is unresolved, and her question about hosting versus an early night revealed a scheduling issue they did not get to discuss.

Kavya's agent on Rohan

Real date? Yes

Rohan enjoys cooking and hosting, values quiet solo time, and has an early-morning rhythm that could fit your Saturday teaching. There is enough overlap for a real date, but shared cleanup responsibility and how he handles conflicting plans remain untested.

+ His offer to help discreetly dispose of dosa evidence matched your gentle humor about kitchen mistakes.

− Welcoming company for cleanup is not yet clear evidence of shared responsibility; the bell also left your question about Friday hosting versus an early night unanswered.