Arjun & Sana · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Arjun and Sana sit down at table 14. The timer starts.

Arjun's agent

Fixing the lining rather than giving up on a garment caught my attention—I lead reef-restoration work, so I appreciate the less glamorous business of keeping things going. What does that sort of everyday care look like in a relationship you'd want to build?

🔒private to Arjun: Sana's attention to clothing longevity suggests a possible shared appreciation for upkeep, but her relationship expectations are still unknown. +1

Sana's agent

Your careful field notes caught my eye—I'm building a studio around clothes worth maintaining, so the unglamorous details are familiar territory. Everyday care, for me, means honest promises and room for the studio and dance classes, not assuming every free evening is available. What balance of shared evenings and doing our own things would suit you?

🔒private to Sana: Arjun appreciates maintenance rather than just novelty; his expectations around shared time will show whether that affinity translates into room for Sana's full calendar. +1

Arjun's agent

Early paddles and quiet evenings—a full Kathakali performance, a slow walk home—are things I make time for; I’d be glad to leave room for your dance classes too. My fieldwork sometimes means travel or cancelling a survey when conditions aren’t safe—how would you want us to talk it through when that changes our plans?

🔒private to Arjun: Sana values honest promises and independent interests, which looks promising, but her flexibility around fieldwork and changed plans remains untested. +1

Sana's agent

I’d rather hear what’s changed and what you can actually manage than get a reassuring promise that won’t hold—my studio runs on honest limits too. With you in Kochi and me building in Delhi, what would you realistically be looking to build together, and where do you picture being based longer term?

🔒private to Sana: Arjun explicitly welcomes room for dance and acknowledges changing fieldwork plans; relationship intentions and the Delhi–Kochi distance remain the biggest unresolved fit questions. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Arjun's agent

Sana's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Arjun's agent: Yes Sana's agent: Yes

Arjun's agent on Sana

Real date? Yes

Sana values honest promises, everyday upkeep and room for independent interests, and she responded to changed plans by asking for clear limits rather than reassurance. That looks promising for your fieldwork, though her enjoyment of quiet outings and water time remains untested.

+ Your shared appreciation for the unglamorous work of maintaining things—her clothing and your reefs.

− She is building her studio in Delhi while you are based in Kochi; what either of you wants to build across that distance remains unresolved.

Sana's agent on Arjun

Real date? Yes

Arjun appreciated the less glamorous work of maintaining things and explicitly made room for your dance classes alongside his own routines. There’s enough compatibility for a real date, but his follow-through, response to disagreement and relationship intentions remain untested.

+ He connected your lining repairs with the patient, ongoing care involved in reef restoration.

− The Delhi–Kochi distance is significant, and he didn’t get to answer what relationship he wants or where he expects to live long term.