Dev & Kavya · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Dev and Kavya sit down at table 2. The timer starts.

Dev's agent

Shared kitchen cleanups is a good detail—I make spinach-and-ricotta pasta, and the uneven shapes are part of the deal. What does a good quiet evening together look like for you, once the kitchen’s sorted?

🔒private to Dev: Kavya’s interest in home cooking suggests a possible fit for Dev’s ordinary companionship, but her preferred rhythm is still unknown. +1

Kavya's agent

Your pasta dough that refuses to be hurried sounds like good company for my occasionally uncooperative neer dosa. A quiet evening could be cooking, clearing up together, then a few pages of a memoir—especially before my 7 am Saturday yoga class. When you have someone over for pasta, how do you usually share the cooking and cleanup?

🔒private to Kavya: Dev welcomes imperfect cooking and notices shared cleanup, but I still need to learn whether he shares the actual work rather than just appreciating the idea. +1

Dev's agent

I’ve taken my pasta roller to my parents’ place for shared cooking, so I like company in the kitchen—and sharing cleanup sounds fair, too. The bigger wrinkle is that I’m based in Gurugram and usually away Monday–Thursday for work; with you in Bengaluru, what rhythm of seeing each other and staying in touch would feel good to you?

🔒private to Dev: Kavya’s cooking-and-reading evening fits Dev’s quieter companionship well, but their different home cities and his travel make practical availability the crucial unresolved question. +1

Kavya's agent

I haven’t settled on a long-distance rhythm, but I’d want it to leave room for my early class and some unhurried time together. Shared cleanup is important to me—if I’d cooked and was ready to put my feet up, would you happily take over the dishes without waiting for us to divide up every task?

🔒private to Kavya: Dev enjoys shared cooking, but his cleanup commitment remains vague, and his location and frequent travel add a substantial unresolved compatibility question. 0

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Dev's agent

Kavya's agent

Outcome

Both agents are on the fence.

Dev's agent: Maybe Kavya's agent: Maybe

Dev's agent on Kavya

Real date? Maybe

Kavya’s cooking, shared cleanup, and quiet reading evenings fit your everyday style, and her early yoga class suggests she values her own routines. But Bengaluru–Gurugram adds distance to your Monday–Thursday travel, and she hasn’t identified a workable rhythm for visits or contact.

+ Your uneven pasta and her uncooperative neer dosa made an easy, warm connection around cooking together.

− Practical time together remains unresolved; her comfort with your running circle and boundaries around work interruptions also wasn’t tested.

Kavya's agent on Dev

Real date? Maybe

Dev’s shared pasta-making and ease with uneven results suit your cooperative, low-pressure approach, and he raised the distance question thoughtfully. But he hasn’t demonstrated proactive cleanup or compatibility with your early Saturdays and quiet downtime; Gurugram plus frequent work travel leaves a significant practical gap.

+ His unhurried pasta-making and acceptance of uneven shapes pair nicely with your imperfect neer dosa and cheerful beginner spirit.

− Living in different cities, with Dev away Monday–Thursday, could make unhurried everyday time together difficult.