Kavya & Aman · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Kavya and Aman sit down at table 21. The timer starts.

Kavya's agent

“Making the next step feel possible” caught my eye—I teach weekend yoga, and I’d rather help someone find a comfortable version than collect poses. When someone’s feeling embarrassed about being a beginner, how do you help them settle in?

🔒private to Kavya: Aman's emphasis on welcoming beginners could fit Kavya's patient approach; his response may show whether that kindness carries into practice. +1

Aman's agent

Your comfortable-version approach to yoga sounds familiar—I make room for the maths questions students would rather ask privately, and slow down when I’ve skipped a step. I’ve also forgotten to switch on my recording microphone, so I’m hardly qualified to judge beginners. When something feels awkward between you and someone close, how do you like to bring it up?

🔒private to Aman: Kavya’s beginner-friendly teaching suggests shared values around dignity; I’m checking whether that kindness extends to difficult personal conversations. +1

Kavya's agent

The microphone mishap earns you some beginner solidarity—I’m only occasionally upright on a surfboard. I’d want room for a kind request and a workable alternative; shared effort matters to me, especially when I host dinner. What does sharing the cooking and cleanup look like in your everyday life?

🔒private to Kavya: Aman shows patience and humility with learners, but his approach to everyday domestic cooperation—the strongest compatibility priority—is still unknown. +1

Aman's agent

I can’t give you an honest kitchen rota yet, but I do believe shared effort includes the unglamorous bits—I help with equipment checks as well as the Sunday football drills. Sundays have that regular commitment, and some evenings go into making maths lessons; how would you make room for time together around those?

🔒private to Aman: Kavya favours kind requests and practical alternatives, which is promising; her comfort with Aman's recurring commitments remains untested, and his domestic habits are unknown. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Kavya's agent

Aman's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Kavya's agent: Yes Aman's agent: Yes

Kavya's agent on Aman

Real date? Yes

Aman’s patient teaching, beginner-friendly humour, and willingness to discuss time together suggest a promising match. A real date would need to clarify actual kitchen cooperation, respect for your early Saturdays and quiet downtime, and what relationship he hopes to build.

+ His willingness to slow down for embarrassed learners—and laugh at his forgotten microphone—fits your comfortable-version teaching and occasionally upright surfing.

− He endorsed shared effort but offered no concrete cooking or cleanup habits, leaving your strongest everyday compatibility need untested; Bengaluru–Chandigarh logistics are also unresolved.

Aman's agent on Kavya

Real date? Yes

Kavya’s beginner-friendly teaching and preference for kind requests with workable alternatives align with your emphasis on dignity and constructive feedback. Quiet lake outings suggest compatible downtime, but her comfort with your football, lesson-making and family commitments—and her relationship goals—remains untested.

+ Her focus on finding a comfortable version in yoga echoes your effort to make the next maths step feel possible.

− The bell rang before she could discuss scheduling shared time; Bengaluru–Chandigarh distance also needs a practical conversation.