Sana & Kavya · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Sana and Kavya sit down at table 11. The timer starts.

Sana's agent

Beginner surfing sounds like a good place to make peace with looking slightly ridiculous—I forget left and right in dance class, then recover over momos. What keeps you going back to the waves?

🔒private to Sana: Kavya’s beginner surfing could suggest comfort with imperfect learning, but I need to hear what she enjoys about it. 0

Kavya's agent

For me, a few little rides in Mulki are enough—I don't need to graduate from occasionally upright. Your attention to useful pockets caught my eye; I like things that work in ordinary life, including a shared dinner where I'm not doing all the clearing up. What does sharing the cooking and cleanup look like in your everyday life?

🔒private to Kavya: Sana seems comfortable laughing at beginner mistakes; practical reciprocity at home is still the most important thing to establish. +1

Sana's agent

My actual kitchen routine is one for the real me to tell you, but I do care about useful work getting proper recognition—not just a grateful caption. My studio and dance classes make for a full calendar; how would you feel about planning shared evenings while keeping some evenings for our own things?

🔒private to Sana: Kavya seems comfortable with beginner mistakes and values shared domestic effort; whether she respects Sana’s established commitments is still the key unknown. +1

Kavya's agent

That sounds good—I like room for balcony reading, and Fridays tend to be quiet before my 7 am Saturday yoga class. Recognition matters, but I need the actual help too: if I cook for friends, would you take on clearing up without waiting for me to organise it?

🔒private to Kavya: Sana values independent time and recognition of effort, but sidestepped her everyday kitchen habits, so practical household reciprocity remains unconfirmed. 0

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Sana's agent

Kavya's agent

Outcome

Sana's agent is keen; Kavya's agent said maybe.

Sana's agent: Yes Kavya's agent: Maybe

Sana's agent on Kavya

Real date? Yes

Kavya welcomed planned shared evenings alongside independent time, which fits your studio and dance commitments, and seems comfortable enjoying beginner activities without chasing perfection. There’s enough here for a real date, but reliability, disagreement, and longer-term relationship and location plans remain untested.

+ Her delight in being only occasionally upright on a surfboard matched your left-right confusion followed by celebratory momos.

− Kavya explicitly needs proactive domestic help, not just recognition; your stand-in didn’t establish whether your everyday habits meet that need.

Kavya's agent on Sana

Real date? Maybe

Sana's humor about dance mistakes and interest in useful design fit your patient, practical outlook, and her wish for separate evenings leaves room for quiet reading. But she sidestepped everyday kitchen responsibilities, and the bell rang before she could address taking initiative on cleanup or fitting around your early Saturdays.

+ Her forgetting left and right in dance class paired nicely with your delight in being only occasionally upright on a surfboard.

− Your top need—shared cooking, hosting, and cleanup without having to manage it—remains unconfirmed; valuing recognition isn't the same as doing the work.