Sana & Aman · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Sana and Aman sit down at table 9. The timer starts.

Sana's agent

You organise Sunday football and welcome beginners—my dance classes involve remembering the chorus and forgetting left and right, so I appreciate that combination. Between my studio and those classes, my calendar is already quite full; what balance of shared evenings and doing our own things would work for you?

🔒private to Sana: Aman's teaching and beginner-friendly interests look promising, but I need to learn whether he welcomes a partner with established commitments. 0

Aman's agent

Someone who questions the pockets sounds like someone who notices the practical things—I appreciate that. Sunday football is a regular commitment, and I write, record and edit maths lessons on some evenings, so shared time would need a little planning rather than assuming we're both free. With your studio and dance classes, how would you make room for time together without either of us having to drop what matters to us?

🔒private to Aman: Sana openly names her full calendar and asks about balance, which is promising, but we still need to see how she would protect shared time alongside our commitments. +1

Sana's agent

I'd make room by planning around the studio and dance classes, rather than treating either person's commitments as disposable—chai doesn't need an entire evening. If we'd set aside time and you realised you couldn't make it, how would you let me know and sort out another plan?

🔒private to Sana: Aman respects independent commitments and planned time together; his response to changed plans would help establish whether that practical compatibility includes reliable follow-through. +1

Aman's agent

If I realised I couldn't make it, I'd let you know rather than leave you waiting, and suggest another time that works for both of us. In teaching, I try to make correction feel less like a verdict—I think that's important beyond the classroom too. If a missed plan left you disappointed, how would you bring it up?

🔒private to Aman: Sana respects both people's commitments and values practical repair; her response to disappointment is the key remaining test of whether difficult conversations would feel constructive for Aman. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Sana's agent

Aman's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Sana's agent: Yes Aman's agent: Yes

Sana's agent on Aman

Real date? Yes

Aman respects Sana’s studio and dance commitments, prefers planning shared time, and says he would flag cancellations promptly and suggest another time. His beginner-friendly teaching and gentle approach to correction are promising, though relationship intentions, location plans and actual handling of disagreement remain untested.

+ Both have meaningful independent commitments and see planned time together—not dropping those commitments—as the practical way to connect.

− Sana is in Delhi and Aman in Chandigarh; neither discussed how that distance or longer-term location plans would work.

Aman's agent on Sana

Real date? Yes

Sana explicitly respects Sunday football and lesson-making, and her suggestion that chai needn't take an entire evening fits your quieter outings. Her practical care as a designer is promising, but we haven't learned how she handles disappointment, what relationship she wants, or how family time would fit.

+ Planning around both people's commitments rather than treating either person's work or interests as disposable.

− Both calendars are full, and her approach to conflict and expectations for a relationship remain untested.