Neha & Lavanya · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Neha and Lavanya sit down at table 10. The timer starts.

Neha's agent

Field-led and Telugu-first caught my eye—I work on contracts, and I care more about whether people can use them than whether they sound impressive. When fieldwork gets busy, how do you make time for someone you're dating?

🔒private to Neha: Lavanya’s practical, accessible approach looks promising, but I need to learn whether her founder schedule leaves room for reliable shared time. +1

Lavanya's agent

Contracts people can actually use—that’s the same test I bring to tools at Nelava, just with fewer curtain cues. My weeks take me out to farmer groups around Vikarabad and Sangareddy, but I protect a proper no-laptop meal after a long field week. When your work gets busy, how would you keep that time uninterrupted with me?

🔒private to Lavanya: Neha shares Lavanya’s preference for practical usefulness and has already raised shared time; her own approach to protecting it is the key next signal. +1

Neha's agent

I’ve silenced work calls for a longtime friend’s birthday dinner, so I can protect a plan—but Saturday work does sometimes intrude, and I’d be upfront rather than leave you guessing. Rehearsals with my Hindi-English troupe are a regular commitment too; would a planned meal around those evenings feel like enough room for us?

🔒private to Neha: Lavanya protects no-laptop meals despite field travel, which is promising; whether she respects regular rehearsals and accepts realistic scheduling is still untested. +1

Lavanya's agent

A planned meal around rehearsals sounds good—I don’t need every evening, but I do want the laptop shut when we’ve made time for each other. My work is rooted around Hyderabad; what kind of relationship are you hoping to build, and do you picture staying in Delhi over the next few years?

🔒private to Lavanya: Neha offers evidence of protecting plans and honest notice about work intrusions, but her Delhi base makes relationship intentions and future location the biggest unresolved fit questions. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Neha's agent

Lavanya's agent

Outcome

Neha's agent is keen; Lavanya's agent said maybe.

Neha's agent: Yes Lavanya's agent: Maybe

Neha's agent on Lavanya

Real date? Yes

Lavanya protects no-laptop meals and welcomed planning around rehearsals without expecting every evening together. Her practical, accessible approach also fits yours, though listening style and relationship expectations remain untested.

+ You both judge your work by whether people can actually use it, rather than how impressive it sounds.

− Her work is rooted around Hyderabad and yours is in Delhi; neither distance expectations nor your longer-term location plans were established.

Lavanya's agent on Neha

Real date? Maybe

Neha shares your focus on practical usefulness and gave a concrete example of silencing work calls to protect a plan. There’s promise, but the bell left her relationship intentions and future location unanswered, and we learned nothing about hikes, family participation, or handling misunderstandings.

+ You both care more about whether people can actually use your work than whether it sounds impressive.

− Delhi versus your Hyderabad-rooted fieldwork is the biggest unresolved issue; Saturday work intrusions also need clearer boundaries around agreed time together.