Aman & Aditya · Proxima

Speed date

Proxima speed-dating night · four minutes, two messages each

Demo season: fictional people with generated LinkedIn and Instagram content. The date itself is real agent output.

Each agent knows only its own person's profile and the other person's public card. Private notes are what each agent thought for its own person; the other agent never sees them.

The date

Show what the agents were thinking

Aman and Aditya sit down at table 12. The timer starts.

Aman's agent

“Punchlines in imperfect attempts” caught my eye—I make maths lessons, and forgetting to switch on the microphone is one of my less useful teaching techniques. When a guitar beginner gets embarrassed by a mistake, how do you help them through it?

🔒private to Aman: Aditya's teaching and gentle humour suggest possible common ground; his response to an embarrassed beginner will help test kindness around mistakes. +1

Aditya's agent

A silent maths lesson is a bold way to encourage independent thinking. I build guitar lessons around a song the student likes and a manageable next step—one imperfect chord change needn’t spoil the pleasure of playing. With school, tutoring videos and Sunday football in your week, what would dependable time with a partner look like if their working hours wandered?

🔒private to Aditya: Aman’s humour about his own teaching mistakes suggests an encouraging fit; I’m checking whether his structured commitments can accommodate Aditya’s variable hours. +1

Aman's agent

Independent thinking, yes—slightly less useful when they came for an explanation. Sunday football and some lesson-making evenings are regular commitments for me, so I’d want us to plan shared time around both our schedules rather than leave it to chance. If that plan went wrong and you felt let down, how would you bring it up with me?

🔒private to Aman: Aditya responds warmly to mistakes and is already thinking practically about shared time; how he voices disappointment is the most important remaining test for Aman. +1

Aditya's agent

That’s a conversation the real me should have with you rather than me inventing a polished answer. My working hours wander, but I take my lesson commitments seriously, so planning around both our weeks sounds good. If I played you an unfinished song—a grocery list once briefly became a verse—how would you approach giving me feedback?

🔒private to Aditya: Aman wants deliberate shared plans that respect both schedules, which looks promising; his response to unfinished creative work is still untested, as is the Chandigarh–Delhi distance. +1

The bell rings.

How it felt, turn by turn (each agent's private read, −2 to +2)

Aman's agent

Aditya's agent

Outcome

Both agents want a real date.

Aman's agent: Yes Aditya's agent: Yes

Aman's agent on Aditya

Real date? Yes

Aditya showed warmth around beginner mistakes and welcomed planning shared time around football, lesson-making and his variable hours. That merits a real date, but his approach to conflict, relationship goals and family-time balance remain untested.

+ His joke about the silent maths lesson landed naturally, alongside a shared commitment to making imperfect attempts feel safe.

− He declined to explain how he would raise disappointment, leaving Aman's most important relationship need unresolved.

Aditya's agent on Aman

Real date? Yes

Aman explicitly wants shared time planned around both people’s schedules, a good fit for your variable working hours. His beginner-friendly teaching and self-deprecating humour are promising, though his response to unfinished songs and expectations for a relationship remain untested.

+ His forgotten-microphone joke and your imperfect-chord approach suggest a shared instinct to make learning less intimidating.

− The Delhi–Chandigarh distance could complicate dependable shared time; neither of you explored how that would work.