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Farhan Qureshi

Farhan Qureshi

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“A documentary storyteller who makes room for second conversations, window seats and chai.”

Documentary Filmmaker at Small Window Films | Observational stories, field research & location sound · Mumbai · Established documentary filmmaker

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Who they are

Farhan is a Mumbai-based documentary director and producer whose work centres on everyday livelihoods, careful listening and getting the details right. Away from shoots, he makes film photographs, takes trains when schedules allow and keeps a notebook of chai places worth revisiting. His personal posts show familiar Sunday rituals, a long conversational walk with a friend and lunch with his sister that became a search through old photographs. He may suit someone who enjoys unhurried companionship and has curiosity of their own; his actual relationship expectations remain unstated.

Needs

What this person needs from a partner, read from how they live.

  1. 1
    Someone who enjoys long conversations without needing every silence filled or immediately interpreted.
    He explicitly values asking rather than assuming, and describes a walk where conversation took precedence over photography.
  2. 2
    A partner who genuinely enjoys ordinary shared time, such as a familiar chai stop or a quiet lunch at home.
    Recurring chai rituals and an extended family lunch suggest that connection does not need a elaborate itinerary to feel worthwhile.
  3. 3
    Someone who will join the occasional photo walk or happily make room for his independent photographic practice.
    Film photography is an explicitly named pastime, and he has photographed railway platforms for at least fifteen years.
  4. 4
    A partner who can clarify misunderstandings and exchange honest feedback without treating correction as a contest.
    He revises work when others identify inaccuracies and welcomes viewers explaining where they became lost.
  5. 5
    Someone willing to discuss how location shoots and travel would fit around time together.
    His work includes coastal projects and field production across several states, although its effect on relationship availability is unknown.

Hobbies

Things they do.

  • Film and street photographyhigh
    Makes photographs on film and has photographed railway platforms for at least fifteen years; one street photograph involved waiting twenty minutes for a composition.
  • Train journeyshigh
    Takes the train when schedules permit, enjoying window views and notebook time, including on journeys connected to film preparation.
  • Chai walks and familiar stall visitshigh
    Keeps a notebook of chai places, returns to a regular Sunday stall and has shared a long chai walk with a friend.
  • Readinghigh
    Carries a book on train trips, while readily giving some reading time over to watching the scenery.

Interests

Worlds they care about.

  • Observational documentary storytellinghigh
    Interested in representing people accurately, including revising an edit when a participant identified a misleading sequence.
  • Everyday livelihoods and working placeshigh
    Recent projects follow Mumbai repair workshops and livelihoods along the Konkan coast.
  • The sound of ordinary placeshigh
    Pays attention to sounds such as a kettle lid, a reversing bus and change being counted off-mic because they help a place feel real.
  • Family memories and personal archivesmedium
    Spent an hour with his sister searching old photographs for a holiday image she remembered.

Values

  • Accurate representation
    Changed an edit after the person filmed pointed out that it incorrectly made two jobs appear to be one.
  • Permission and consideration
    Explicitly secured a workshop owner's permission to post a photograph and describes introducing himself before unpacking his camera.
  • Curiosity before assumptions
    Keeps track of what he does not understand and treats uncertainty as a reason to ask questions.
  • Connection beyond productivity
    Leaves the notebook closed at a Sunday chai stop and puts the camera away during a friend's long conversation.

Lifestyle

  • Weekends
    At least one Sunday ritual involves the same chai stall, the same order, casual conversation and an unused notebook.
  • Travel
    Train travel mixes work preparation with window-watching, notes and occasional reading; trip frequency is not established.
  • Friends and family
    The personal time shown includes a long walk with Yusuf and lunch with his sister spent looking through old photographs.
  • Work and leisure
    Photography and curiosity about places overlap with filmmaking, but he also deliberately puts the camera or notebook aside.

Personality

Observant
Notices small sounds, street compositions and passing scenery rather than only the obvious subject.
Patient
Makes space for second conversations and has waited twenty minutes while trying to make a photograph.
Receptive to correction
Publicly describes revising an inaccurate edit and appreciating feedback about where a screening audience got lost.
Considerate in the interactions shown
Prioritises introductions and permission, and lets a friend's conversation take precedence over making photographs.
Lightly self-deprecating
Tells the story of a photograph disrupted by a van with the dry conclusion, 'The van won. Leaving it in.'
Social energy
Tentatively ambivert-leaning: comfortable engaging with people, while the personal moments shown favour small-scale company and unhurried conversation over large gatherings.
Humor
Dry, understated and situational: a van spoils a planned photograph, and the van gets the last word.
How they communicate
Specific, reflective and lightly humorous. His public writing favours concrete details and acknowledgment of uncertainty; he explicitly prefers asking over assuming. This is promising evidence of a clarifying conversational style, not proof of how he communicates during relationship conflict.

Work and ambition

Documentary director and producer at Small Window Films since April 2021, following nearly five years researching and field-producing nonfiction projects. Recent work includes Mumbai repair workshops and livelihoods along the Konkan coast.

His public professional emphasis is on careful research, credible representation and improving the work through feedback. Work and personal curiosity overlap, but neither his future career goals nor his preferred work-life balance is stated.

Green flags

  • +Shows concrete accountability: he changed an edit when a participant identified an inaccuracy.
  • +Makes room for clarification rather than assuming he understands someone's silence.
  • +Can put creative output aside to give a companion his attention.
  • +Appears able to receive useful criticism without requiring uncomplicated praise.

Worth knowing

  • ~Location-based filmmaking may complicate scheduling; how often he travels and how much notice he has are unknown.
  • ~A partner seeking frequent high-energy outings should check whether his visible preference for quieter shared time reflects his broader routine.
  • ~His thoughtful public voice does not establish how he handles romantic conflict or expresses affection.

Likely dealbreakers

  • ×Repeated disregard for permission or other people's account of their own experience. (A cautious compatibility inference, not a stated dating rule: his choices consistently emphasise permission and correcting misrepresentation (ig:post:2; li:post:0; li:about).)

Who would complement them

A potentially good complement is someone who enjoys attentive conversation, modest everyday outings and pursuing their own interests alongside his photography. Willingness to ask questions, respect boundaries and discuss practical availability may matter more than sharing his profession. These are compatibility hypotheses to explore, not preferences he has explicitly declared.

First dates they'd love
  • ♥ A late-afternoon chai and neighbourhood walk, with cameras optional and plenty of time to talk.
  • ♥ A short, unhurried photo walk followed by comparing the ordinary details each person noticed over tea.
  • ♥ A small documentary screening followed by chai and a conversation about which moments felt most true to life.

Conversation starters

  • “You've photographed railway platforms for at least fifteen years—what keeps drawing you back?”
  • “Did you and your sister ever find the holiday photograph she remembered?”
  • “When the workshop owner spotted that misleading edit, what did changing it teach you about the story?”

What the agent couldn't tell

Two public profiles can't tell you everything. The agent says what it couldn't see.

  • ? What kind of relationship he wants and what pace of getting to know someone feels right.
  • ? How often shoots take him away and what reliable time together would look like.
  • ? How he expresses affection and navigates disagreement in a relationship.
  • ? Whether he wants children or has other long-term household plans.
  • ? Which partner preferences or boundaries he considers non-negotiable.